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Your Feelings Are Real. They Are Not Who You Are.

Pastor Daniel & Marie Cox · Aug 4, 2026

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Culture says "I feel it, therefore I am it." Scripture does not.

Feelings are real. They make terrible masters. A pastor and a licensed counselor explain the difference.

You’ll learn:
• Why “I feel anxious” so easily becomes “I am an anxious person”
• The difference between primary and secondary emotions
• Why “when something is hysterical, it’s historical”
• How Cain, Peter, and Jesus Himself handled intense emotion
• Practical questions that help you dig beneath the surface instead of being controlled by it
• Why your identity is not what you feel it’s who Christ says you are

This conversation will help you stop being ruled by your emotions and start letting truth lead.

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⏱️ Chapters: 0:00, Welcome
1:14, The cultural shift: Emotions as identity
3:17, Living in a “my truth” generation
4:10, God created emotions (and why that’s good)
9:00, How your past still drives present emotions
12:40, “When something is hysterical, it’s historical”
14:52, Primary vs. secondary emotions (Cain’s anger)
21:00, The iceberg: What’s really under the surface
24:36, How Jesus handled overwhelming emotion
27:00, Practical questions to dig deeper
31:12, When Peter’s feelings got it completely wrong
34:06, Why “this is just who I am” is dangerous
38:03, From “broken” to “human”
40:40, How to process emotions without being ruled by them
43:48, Final word: Feelings don’t get the last vote
44:54, Closing

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